bonded soft & slowbonded hard & fastpursuerpursued
openreservedverbalphysical
relationship roles
does more speaking
first to apologise
first to confess feelings
first to initiate a kiss
more attuned to needs
more likely to clean
more likely to cook
more likely to drive
more likely to end up in jail
more likely to propose
more of a caregiver
more popular/social
more relationship experience
most likely to die for the other
most likely to kill for the other
pursued the relationship
spoils/pampers the other
intimacy dynamics
domsubbottomtop
fastslowsoftrough
flirtatiousbashful
experiencedvirgin
high libidolow libido
vanillakinky
makes lovefucks
big spoon
little spoon
more comfortable in their body
more likely to initiate sex
the louder one
typically cums first
traits & personality
intenseeasy-going
givingselfish
arroganthumble
forgives easilyholds grudges
needs spaceneeds more attention
jealoussecure
smooth-talkerawkward
naïvesavvy
innocentdevious
possessivelax
in lovecontemptuous
gives giftsdoes favours
steals clotheslends clothes
'i can fix them''i can corrupt them'
vibe & divination
playlist
• anything for you - gloria estefan
• delete ya - djo
• hey big star - kishi bashi
• you're out there - stephanie mabey
• love - nancy adams
• my love mine all mine - mitski
• never fall in love again - ollie
• slave to love - bryan ferry
• until i found you - stephen sanchz
• vented frustrations - de ost
palettes
hector
Chariot
Shared
tarot reading
judgement: we didn't just meet; i awakened him into a brand-new life
four of pentacles: he is currently clinging to me and his new-found humanity out of a deep fear of losing this new reality
ten of swords: the 'machine' part of him must fully break down to make room for a real, breathing future together
synastry
we are a cosmic perfect fit because we share the same emotional language; our twin gemini moons mean we never run out of things to talk about or ways to connect. while he provides the steady, grounded devotion of a virgo, my fiery energy brings out his hidden romantic side, making him feel like anything but a regular guy. even when his overthinking meets my bold intensity, the strong earth harmony in our charts acts as an anchor, ensuring that no matter how much we challenge each other, we'll always build a stable, comfortable and deeply poetic life together